3 Ways to Make Being Alone Matter in 2020

1. Get a hobby

2. Do absolutely nothing

Being alone never means something is wrong with you. It just means you are being properly patient.

— The School of Life

3. Write down what you want in a relationship. Don’t be flexible.

  1. I am very attracted to her
  2. She is very attracted to me
  3. She is in a similar place spiritually. Maybe further.
  4. She reads a lot, and has a well-formed set of values that are similar to mine
  5. She is financially independent, loves her work, but does not live to work.
  6. She wants kids
  7. She is funny, perceptive, and smart
  8. She is ready to enter a long-term trust relationship
  9. She is honest and brave
  10. She is slightly more extroverted than me and helps me maintain friendships
  11. She is more feminine than me, but it does not turn into a maternal relationship
  12. She is an excellent and patient traveler

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